are you "out" to your children?
we aren't specifically "out" or not. we say where we are going and who we are spending time with, but don't call them "boyfriend/girlfriend/etc." at the same time though we have kissed and cuddled the other partner with our spouse and child in the room.
yes.wait, no. i don't consider the dogs and the cat children.
Sorta? We've just always been poly as far back as the 3 youngest can remember, so it's just not unusual to them. We're not "in your face" about it tho. I did have to "come out" to my eldest (15) a few years ago because she is aware that it's different.
We are in the process of trying to figure out how to break the ice with the kids. They have a hard enough time accepting that we hug out friends, so we might have to wait a bit longer yet. We are slowly working up to it.